Good Parenting Help: After School Programs – Educational V Recreational
So, your daughter or son is beginning to get restless and make you restless. They have got more free time than is good for them, and you are now considering after school programs - anything that will keep them busy for a few life-saving hours!
The majority of after school activities can be broadly classified into three – recreational, educational and society-oriented. The last one generally comes into play when your daughter or son is already a bit grown up and can voice their own opinions.
Educational activities aim at furthering the knowledge of your daughter or son. Their general awareness, their understanding and their memory are targeted and they are taught various techniques that will help them improve one or all of these. Programs such as speed mathematics and intensive memory training are educational after school activities. There are academic programs that will review your daughter or son’s homework and class work and help the child gain more in-depth knowledge in specific subjects. Thus academic programs have a definite edge over the fun and games, especially if parents feel that their daughter or son is struggling academically.
Recreational activities include games and sports, fine arts, painting etc. The main thrust here is to have fun. Naturally, classes become more competitive as the child climbs up the ladder. Many sport events, competitions, stage performances etc are held to encourage the child.
When we compare the merits of the two kinds of activities, I believe that the recreational programs have more meat. First of all, kids do not enjoy learning unless they themselves feel curious about something. Most academic programs are standardized courses that are not too flexible. They have a general aim and a well laid out methodology. After a day at school, the child may feel bored. Also, further study may overwhelm them and make them feel frustrated. Burnout is very much a possibility here.
Recreational programs give a welcome break from the monotony of learning and studies. The mental challenge and the physical exertion make the child feel a renewed zest and a pleasant sense of fulfillment. Group activity teaches them social skills, patience and discipline. It is a proven fact that kids involved in extra curricular activities get better grades than others. Sometimes closing the textbooks and playing a game may be the best way to handle their studies.
Whatever program you select for your daughter or son, regular evaluation is the key to success. You will have to measure your daughter or son’s progress. If progress is unsatisfactory, move your daughter or son out of the program.
Your child should also have the freedom to reject an activity if and when they feel bored with it. Usually, programs that combine the educational with the recreational are best suited especially for younger children. That way, kids can have fun while they learn.
And what about a hobby that brings you are your child together. If you learn how to face paint you are sure to have a willing sitter. And think about the fun you could have at kids parties, Halloween etc. Discover more
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