Making Up With Your Ex - How To Kill Any Chance Of Getting Your Ex Back
Being overly reactive when you get dumped and left out in the relationship cold is what most spurned people do. Is it the right thing to do?
This depends but in most cases, being reactive will only antagonize the situation and destroy any hopes of winning your ex back. That is if you don’t know what actions you need to take. Emotions take over during a break up and people do and say things they regret.
It’s a slap in the face to a person’s ego and instead of thinking clearly about the situation, most people play the one-up-man-ship game and this is the worst thing you could do if you are on the receiving end. If you feel you’ve been unfairly dumped remember, there has to be a good reason and sensible heads must prevail.
Let’s take a look at four reactions you just don’t what to make. Just bear in mind, and this is not meant to offend but your ex really doesn’t like the look of you or sound of your voice right now but the good news is, handled right, this can be turned around quickly.
4 Deadly Relationship Sins
1. Picking up the phone and trying to speak with your ex won’t do you any good. Why? It’s the last thing you want to do if you have any hopes of winning your ex back.
2. Under no circumstances get into an argument with him/her. Yes, your ego has taken a hit and how dare they break up with you but you’ve got to remember, there is every chance this is a temporary phase and with you hounding them and wanting to argue about it is only going to convince them of one thing - to cut you loose for good.
3. Avoid going through a third party like friends and family. Friends are usually loyal and you can bet they’ve known this was coming for sometime. As far as family is concerned, especially parents, blood is thicker than water and the last thing you want to do is put down your ex to their parents. You’ll not only get grief from your father and mother-in-law but also your ex when she/he finds out. It’s no way to start mending broken bridges on your part and will destroy any chance of winning your ex back.
4. Avoid showing up at places where you know your ex hangs out and make out it’s just an accidental meeting. Unless they are completely naive, you’ll be seen as a serial pest or even worse, a stalker. The path to winning your ex back starts with the realization on your part that this is real and until you do that, the road to reconciliation will just be a hope on your part than a reality.
