If It Is To Be, It’s Up To Me!
Life Coaching is all about creating that inner change and helping people to grow personally. All of us at this time are the sum of every single decision, no matter how small, made up until this moment. Even “not making” a decision is an absolute choice. So every experience we have had has forced us to make a decision and in that process, we change as a consequence. This does not mean that are either good or bad. We are just what we are at this time. For example, two children have an alcoholic father.
What Life Coaching is about is to help you become aware of the choices you are making (mostly automatically out of habit) and establish the consequences if you continue. The coach then will also encourage you to perhaps take a different path. At no time does (or must) he take any responsibility for your decision and actions. (In fact, run a mile if you find yourself asking what to do and then doing what the coach tells you!) The reason is that if it goes wrong, who are you going to blame? And if it goes right, to whom are you going to give the credit? You are responsible for the Good, and the Bad.
Sharing experiences on how you have coped with a particularly difficult situation will help and inspire others who may want to use your solution. And in the Giving and the Receiving, both gain. To your continued personal development.
